Sex Mistake 1. Faking it
This is way more about you than it is about him. Sure, if you're so tired you can barely keep your eyes open, it won't hurt to put on a one-time show. But don't make it a habit. If you do, you're just cheating yourself. I say make him work for it. You know what they say, "Guys love a challenge."
Sex Mistake 2. Not ever initiating
Men have needs (duh), and they want to know that you desire them as badly as they desire you. No need to make it a serious discussion. In fact, subtle hints work wonders.
Sex Mistake 3. Being lazy
Although Anna gave some good tips for the lackadasical lover, the girl who just lies there may seem like she's not enjoying herself—or doesn't feel comfortable enough to let go. It's sexy when a woman "participates." Luckily, we at Smitten love telling you how!
Sex Mistake 4. Not being up for new things
It's not like you have to don whips and chains or do anything you're not comfortable with. It can be as simple as a new sex position or not saying no just because you haven't done it before. I think this is especially important when you've been with the same partner for a while. Switching it up keeps it interesting.
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